QUEST TO UNDERSTAND ELEMENTARY SCRIPTURAL TRUTH

Jacob: The Swindler is Swindled

Genesis 29 · Pastor Craig R. Jarvis

 

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    • Jacob is on the run because of his brother’s rage – Esau is after his head
    • Jacob’s dad has proven to be a little disappointing in his parenting skills
    • Jacob’s mom has changed over the years also
    • She began as a great woman of promise – a go-getter
    • She now has participated in deceit to clinch the final possession of the birthright for the younger brother
    • Jacob has just seen a vision of a ladder and angels – a confirmation of his calling
    • Jacob’s lack of correct rearing seems apparent in the way he worships the LORD
    • He builds an alter out of one stone and anoints that stone
    • He identifies with pagan ritual of worship in his attempts to thank God
    • God, who is merciful, accepts this sacrifice (pagan as it was)
    • Jacob goes forward with the blessing and protection of God
    • The final clincher: Jacob makes a “deal” with God for His continued blessing

2Jacob’s Encounter at the Well

  • The reader seems to be invited into the state of Jacob in verse 1
  • “Jacob picked up his feet” – this is the first occurrence in the Bible of this phrase
  • Calvin suggests this means that Jacob goes on his way cheerfully after his encounter with God at Bethel
  • The reader seems to also be invited to see the of Jacob
  • The weight / mass of the stone over the well is mentioned several times
  • The shepherds were waiting for the flocks to gather before they began the watering ritual
  • Jacob seems to be anxious to get to his destination – notice how many times Laban and/or their relationship is mentioned v.10
    • Verse 8 gives the reader insight as to the practice of watering in this area of the world
    • It seems as though the flocks gathered with their shepherds early
    • The latecomers would have to wait for the early arrivals to finish watering before they began
    • Jacob seems to disregard cultural norms in his impatience to see Laban

3Jacob’s First Encounter with Rachel

  • Jacob sees Rachel and immediately acts (11-12)
  • Sounds familiar with how treated the servant of Abraham at the well
  • Jacob moves the which normally would have taken several shepherds to move
  • Jacob seems overwhelmed at meeting his cousin – he
  • Is this relief at finding a relation in a foreign country?

  • Is this “at first ” that sweeps him off his feet?
    • NOTE: The narrative keeps insisting that Jacob watered the sheep – not because they were Rachel’s, but because they were Laban’s (“his mothers’ brother”)
  • Is this emotion at realizing his journey that Isaac sent him on was soon coming to an end?

  • “There is…no comment yet about Rachel’s beauty (contrast 24:16). This suggests that Jacob’s prime motive at this stage is to ingratiate himself with his uncle.” – G. Wenham

4Jacob’s First Encounter with Laban

  • Laban’s reaction to the news that Abraham’s relatives were back in town was to be expected v.13
    • Laban to the site
    • Laban greets Jacob with open arms (probably looking around for the sacks of gold)
    • Poor Laban had no idea this was an outcast that wandered to his house
    • Jacob carried no money, no wealth; only and
    • Jacob tells Laban of his past
    • The reader is not given insight as to how thorough the story was that Jacob shared with Laban
    • Did Jacob tell Laban of his tricks to possess the birthright and blessing?

    • Did Jacob only tell Laban of his brother’s hate in searching for him?

    • Did Jacob tell Laban that he was there on his parent’s quest to marry one of his daughters?

    • Laban must have guessed that there was not much financially at stake here and that Jacob was pretty much his
    • Laban invites Jacob to stay with him (14)
    • “You are truly my flesh…”
    • This could be simply a statement of warm welcome
    • This could be a - statement
    • Jacob stays a month…and the reader waits to turn the page

5Jacob “Deals” for the Younger Sister

  • Laban has observed Jacob around his daughter for weeks and finds a way to him v.15
  • There is an interruption in the story that will give the reader some necessary information to proceed v.16-17
    • The meaning of their names
    • “Leah” = “ ”
    • “Rachel” = “ ”
    • Leah’s eyes were “soft”
    • This could mean she was
    • This could simply mean that her eyes held no fire or “sparkle” – this is a quality highly regarded in the East
    • The final information: Rachel had a “beautiful figure and a lovely face”
    • This description comparing Leah and her sister was meant to simply let the reader know that Rachel outshone her sister in many ways.
    • Jacob makes a deal for the prize sister
    • Dowry background
  • The Old Testament fixes a marriage gift at shekels Deut.22:29
    • Typically, gifts were much than 50 shekels
    • Jacob could not ask his family to pay – so he bargained with what he had…
    • Laban agrees to the negotiation – but notice his answer (v.19) – “better for me to give her to you than to someone else” (this is noticeably ambiguous)

6Laban Swindles the Swindler

  • The time passes and Jacob is 7 years smarter v.20
    • His response to Laban seems to indicate that he knows Laban a little more intimately than a few verses previous
    • Jacob his wife and looks as if he is planning on departing immediately
    • Jacob is “taken” at the marriage ceremony
    • Notes: marriage ceremonies in ANE (from Oxford Companion to the Bible, ed. B.M. Metzger & Coogan)
    • With the feasting at the ceremony, Jacob doesn’t realize that Leah has been substituted
  • Laban pulls through on the dowry v.23-24
    • Dowries were given in the ANE as a nest egg for the wife in case of death or divorce
    • As mean as Laban was, he still did the commendable thing with the dowry

7Jacob Discovers the Scheme

  • Jacob’s surprise can be seen in the wording: “and she Leah”
  • Laban’s excuse has a certain poetic justice
  • Laban explained that it is not right to put the younger before the older
  • Jacob had put himself before the firstborn, Esau
  • Could Laban have been “ribbing” Jacob for his sordid past?

  • Was Laban simply making an to get more out of the deal?
  • Either way, his excuse is weak – he should have said this 7 years earlier!
  • Jacob is enraged at Laban’s deceit – Jacob’s has come to him
  • Jacob had no choice but to continue in the marriage ceremony for the rest of the week (v.27) – he had no family support to vouch for his case
  • Jacob realizes that he must stay with his deceitful father-in-law for another 7 years (v.28-29) – his trip home had to wait
  • Conclusion
  • The reader is never given a glimpse into the mind of Jacob – we can only speculate the emotions cursing through his veins
  • The links between this scenario and the scenario that Jacob had pulled off at home are too to overlook
  • Although Jacob is Chosen, he does not escape from Yahweh
  • God is faithful to those he is conforming to his image
  • The Lord disciplines him whom he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives”
  • (Heb.12:5-6; Prov.3:12)

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