QUEST TO UNDERSTAND ELEMENTARY SCRIPTURAL TRUTH
Jacob: The Swindler is Swindled
Genesis 29 · Pastor Craig R. Jarvis
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- Review:
- Jacob is on the run because of his brother’s rage – Esau is after his head
- Jacob’s dad has proven to be a little disappointing in his parenting skills
- Jacob’s mom has changed over the years also
- She began as a great woman of promise – a go-getter
- She now has participated in deceit to clinch the final possession of the birthright for the younger brother
- Jacob has just seen a vision of a ladder and angels – a confirmation of his calling
- Jacob’s lack of correct rearing seems apparent in the way he worships the LORD
- He builds an alter out of one stone and anoints that stone
- He identifies with pagan ritual of worship in his attempts to thank God
- God, who is merciful, accepts this sacrifice (pagan as it was)
- Jacob goes forward with the blessing and protection of God
- The final clincher: Jacob makes a “deal” with God for His continued blessing
2Jacob’s Encounter at the Well
- The reader seems to be invited into the state of Jacob in verse 1
- “Jacob picked up his feet” – this is the first occurrence in the Bible of this phrase
- Calvin suggests this means that Jacob goes on his way cheerfully after his encounter with God at Bethel
- The reader seems to also be invited to see the of Jacob
- The weight / mass of the stone over the well is mentioned several times
- The shepherds were waiting for the flocks to gather before they began the watering ritual
- Jacob seems to be anxious to get to his destination – notice how many times Laban and/or their relationship is mentioned v.10
- Verse 8 gives the reader insight as to the practice of watering in this area of the world
- It seems as though the flocks gathered with their shepherds early
- The latecomers would have to wait for the early arrivals to finish watering before they began
- Jacob seems to disregard cultural norms in his impatience to see Laban
3Jacob’s First Encounter with Rachel
- Jacob sees Rachel and immediately acts (11-12)
- Sounds familiar with how treated the servant of Abraham at the well
- Jacob moves the which normally would have taken several shepherds to move
- Jacob seems overwhelmed at meeting his cousin – he
Is this relief at finding a relation in a foreign country?
- Is this “at first ” that sweeps him off his feet?
- NOTE: The narrative keeps insisting that Jacob watered the sheep – not because they were Rachel’s, but because they were Laban’s (“his mothers’ brother”)
Is this emotion at realizing his journey that Isaac sent him on was soon coming to an end?
- “There is…no comment yet about Rachel’s beauty (contrast 24:16). This suggests that Jacob’s prime motive at this stage is to ingratiate himself with his uncle.” – G. Wenham
4Jacob’s First Encounter with Laban
- Laban’s reaction to the news that Abraham’s relatives were back in town was to be expected v.13
- Laban to the site
- Laban greets Jacob with open arms (probably looking around for the sacks of gold)
- Poor Laban had no idea this was an outcast that wandered to his house
- Jacob carried no money, no wealth; only and
- Jacob tells Laban of his past
- The reader is not given insight as to how thorough the story was that Jacob shared with Laban
Did Jacob tell Laban of his tricks to possess the birthright and blessing?
Did Jacob only tell Laban of his brother’s hate in searching for him?
Did Jacob tell Laban that he was there on his parent’s quest to marry one of his daughters?
- Laban must have guessed that there was not much financially at stake here and that Jacob was pretty much his
- Laban invites Jacob to stay with him (14)
- “You are truly my flesh…”
- This could be simply a statement of warm welcome
- This could be a - statement
- Jacob stays a month…and the reader waits to turn the page
5Jacob “Deals” for the Younger Sister
- Laban has observed Jacob around his daughter for weeks and finds a way to him v.15
- There is an interruption in the story that will give the reader some necessary information to proceed v.16-17
- The meaning of their names
- “Leah” = “ ”
- “Rachel” = “ ”
- Leah’s eyes were “soft”
- This could mean she was
- This could simply mean that her eyes held no fire or “sparkle” – this is a quality highly regarded in the East
- The final information: Rachel had a “beautiful figure and a lovely face”
- This description comparing Leah and her sister was meant to simply let the reader know that Rachel outshone her sister in many ways.
- Jacob makes a deal for the prize sister
- Dowry background
- The Old Testament fixes a marriage gift at shekels Deut.22:29
- Typically, gifts were much than 50 shekels
- Jacob could not ask his family to pay – so he bargained with what he had…
- Laban agrees to the negotiation – but notice his answer (v.19) – “better for me to give her to you than to someone else” (this is noticeably ambiguous)
6Laban Swindles the Swindler
- The time passes and Jacob is 7 years smarter v.20
- His response to Laban seems to indicate that he knows Laban a little more intimately than a few verses previous
- Jacob his wife and looks as if he is planning on departing immediately
- Jacob is “taken” at the marriage ceremony
- Notes: marriage ceremonies in ANE (from Oxford Companion to the Bible, ed. B.M. Metzger & Coogan)
- With the feasting at the ceremony, Jacob doesn’t realize that Leah has been substituted
- Laban pulls through on the dowry v.23-24
- Dowries were given in the ANE as a nest egg for the wife in case of death or divorce
- As mean as Laban was, he still did the commendable thing with the dowry
7Jacob Discovers the Scheme
- Jacob’s surprise can be seen in the wording: “and she Leah”
- Laban’s excuse has a certain poetic justice
- Laban explained that it is not right to put the younger before the older
- Jacob had put himself before the firstborn, Esau
Could Laban have been “ribbing” Jacob for his sordid past?
- Was Laban simply making an to get more out of the deal?
- Either way, his excuse is weak – he should have said this 7 years earlier!
- Jacob is enraged at Laban’s deceit – Jacob’s has come to him
- Jacob had no choice but to continue in the marriage ceremony for the rest of the week (v.27) – he had no family support to vouch for his case
- Jacob realizes that he must stay with his deceitful father-in-law for another 7 years (v.28-29) – his trip home had to wait
- Conclusion
- The reader is never given a glimpse into the mind of Jacob – we can only speculate the emotions cursing through his veins
- The links between this scenario and the scenario that Jacob had pulled off at home are too to overlook
- Although Jacob is Chosen, he does not escape from Yahweh
- God is faithful to those he is conforming to his image
- The Lord disciplines him whom he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives”
- (Heb.12:5-6; Prov.3:12)
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